Your SELF Help

Believe

2009-09-03T05:43:00.000-07:00

Why can't you only just believe in yourself? You may think that beleif in someone else will help you , but it wont, even if that person's belief is so strong it moves everything out of his or her way. The decsion is yours to make, there are always messages and signs for you to follow, whether good or bad, you created them. There always going to be messengers that will come to you, telling you to believe, but your point of attraction is pointed the wrong way. Its all going to start with you, nobody tells you what to, they tell you whats best for you to do, it's up to you. We're all going to have some bad days, but trouble don't last always, believing that it to shall past, makes it so. Start where you are, believe in something small, then move to something bigger in size, and have faith thats its on its way, because the bigger your faith, the bigger the mountain you can remove.

A belief is just a thought you keep thinking. And as you keep thinking it, images arise in your mind and your subconscous holds onto them and accepts them as true. Bingo: A belief is born--and you generally don't really know why you believe it at all. Or sometimes even that you believe it. But those beliefs-conscious or subconscious--are constantly creating and ruling both our actions and our results.

Hold On

2009-09-02T05:44:00.000-07:00

In the mist of all your worries you always get caught in its not going to hapen for me, or I give up. Don't you ever think its time to give up, the thing you want is right at hand, right there if you just would open your eyes to see. You will pray for something, then you worry, then you pray again. Thats not how it goes. Yes we must pray without ceasing, but that prayer consist of your seeing the end, your thoughts are your prayers without ceasing. Everytime we think a thought, the creator is listening, you're asking with your thoughts, so ask in it shall be given. If you want worries, he'll give you something to worriy about. If you want goodness, he'll give you all the good things you want. And why do you always pray for things, when we should pray for his presence, the kingdom, then those things shall be added unto you. If the creator be for you, Who, Who, Who can be against you. Thats why you must keep improving youself, so that you can find yourselves worthy of the presence of him that has created you.

Be still and listen and keep up good prayer (thoughts) about yourself. The time will come when you'll see that pretty much everything was better than you thought. That life was more beautiful, people were kinder, greens were greener, and the water was cleaner. But most of all, you'll see. . . that you were simply stunning, every day of your life.

Can You Feel It

2009-09-01T05:36:00.000-07:00

You'll go through this life always feeling down, the radio and tv help you to feel your worst. All day, everyday, you hear or see some depressing news about someone of something. You will enternalize it as pain, then you'll take on as your own. Your mind doesn't know it's not yours, it is feeling the pain, so it must be yours. Then your world will reflect pain back to you. Whenever we see or hear anything we must learn to look at it from a perspective of truth, and that is, it is all working out for good of the creator. Especially when we see people that we think are doing bad, no matter how bad it may look to you, they have one more day on this earth get it right. They can change there minds at any moment. Let us go through this life not feeling bad, but being happy, knowing its all good.

You should adopt a new name Happy (whatever is your last name), like the young man in the movie Happy Gilmore. Once he found his happy place, he knew he was unstoppable. Now you know that feeling, of accomplishment, triumph, and sublime joy that immediatly follows a job well done, a victory, or a fresh hot pizza delivery to your door? I say feel it now. Go on. Give it to yourself without all the rules.

Take Action

2009-08-22T08:23:00.000-07:00

In life we began to worry about the little tings, and why haven't I received my blessings. You can't sit and wish for anything to happen, you have to make it happen. You know some people that always seem to be at the right place at the time, they always get what they need and desire. But you must understand something those people didn't sit back and wish these things to happen, they went into action towards the things they thought and dreamed about, when they did that, they saw signs in the road telling them they were on the right road, they heard that small voice saying, keep going its right over the horizon. Actions makes actions happen, there will never be anything accomplished without action first, and the first action is thought, then you will be lead to your goal, if you follow the signs and listen.

Start today with actions on something you want, let nobody tell you, you can't have it, because what you see, is for your eyes only. For those who ponder and wonder and wrestle with the idea of what it is they really want, I have an answer that each wholeheartedly agree with: "Happiness." And for those who ponder and wonder and wrestle with exactly what will bring them true happiness, I have an answer that each would whole heartedly disagree with: "Just do something, do anything, as soon as possible, and do it with care." And I'd add, "Trust."

Give, Give, Give

2009-08-20T07:57:00.000-07:00

When you were child, you would get something and keep it to yourself, your mother may or may not tell you to share. You didn't have a clue that there was a science to your sharing what you had, a principle to live by. I believe alot of us grew up and wasn't as fortunate as others in what we had, our parent or parents did the best they could with what they had (which was LOVE). I would always wonder how if we didn't have much, how could my mother feed the other hungry children in the neighborhood, but my mother knew there was a power in sowing and reaping. So as a child you saw an example of your mother doing something that you didn't understand, but she knew that if you practiced it, you would be successful in anything you decided to undertake.

Those that don't claim any religion can claim there way of life is Give, Give, Give, and you'll be the better, because when you see or can imagine the look on someone elses face, and the way they'll feel when you give to them weather it's (time, money, advice, etc. . .), be that blessing and two people get blessed at that moment. Remember giving tells the Universe that you believe you are provided for. For even as you empty your purse, you fear not. The act alone is a demonstration of faith that you will be replenished, and that love is what matters most. And for whomsoever believes these things to be true, it shall become their reality, and adundance shall be showered upon them unceasingly, as if the heavens had opened up.

I Dare You

2009-08-18T05:09:00.000-07:00

Remember when you were a child you would always have someone to dare you to do something, now that you're an adult you're scared to even dare yourself. We always fall into a trap will or wont I, a point of indecsion, where you're just stuck in time, wondering which way to go. Now is the time that you should determine in your mind that this is it, a new beginning, a fresh start with my life. A person who decides that this is the first day of the rest of there life, is on there way to a life miracles, that they are going to create. The dawning of that new day when the sun rises with smile on its face, then you decide to give the sun back a smile of your own, knowing all is well, and nothing can stop you now. You will wake thanking your creator as soon as you open your eyes, and ask the question; I wonder what life has for me today?

When you begin to love and love yourself, no matter what comes your way, you've found the hidden treasures that's always been there. This is when the fun begins, all that you can dream of is yours and knowone can take it away from you. Before this odyssey ever began, there was you, your best friends, and wide-eyed curiosity among you about who would be the first to leap, the first to forget, the first to kiss, the first to tell, the first to fall, the first to get back up, and the first to remember that it all begen with a dare: to love in spite of it all.

Except Your Own

2009-08-17T05:13:00.000-07:00

Now that you're here, you've realized that everything you have and want are up to you and you alone. We always here about the story of how grandmothers would pray for you, they would always say; lord please watch over my baby. Your mother would be up all hours of the night worried, hopping that you would get it right, and your father if there was one in the house would sit and have his own private concerns about you. When you were a child, you were cared for by your mother she would take responsibilty for your actions, always trying to protect you from harm. She would teach and train you in right from wrong, so that hopefully you would grow to be fine young man or woman. Now that you've grown up, you can't say mother, father or anyone else, your fate in life is totally up to you. We will blame everyone for our misfortune, not taking responsibility for anything, but all that is your life right now, you brought it, weather good or bad, you have to own it.

When you begin to change your thoughts about yourself, your everything changes, as it is in the internal, show shall it be in the external. It's truly a sight to see, when the inhabitants of any planetary civilization cross the tipping point and begin to individually accept complete and eternal responsibility for their own happiness. Yet, this hardly compares to the mountain quaking, body shaking, polarity-flipping, hero-making occurrences that transpire within you when such inhabitants graduate to accepting complete and eternal responsibility for their every twinge of unhappiness.

True Power

2009-08-14T05:50:00.000-07:00

You always wonder how other people have power, you watch as other people exercise their power, and it stunds you as to how did they get it, they must be lucky. Luck has nothing to do with anyone having power, they determine in there mind that they have something they want to accomplish. When they start out towards there goals, you can bet that they have very little power, just a belief that they're going complete there goals. As they began to listen to themselves and take action, they then start to realize there power. Once the power button is pushed inside a person, weather good or bad, it's no telling how far they'll go, but you must remember, you reap what you sow. If you plant good thoughts, you get them in return, if you plant bad thoughts you get them in return. You must always be mindful of your thoughts, they make or break you. So write down a goal that want to reach, and start out after it, with action, watch and see the different people, and all the circmstances you began attract in your life, just like magic, revealing your power to yourself.

True power, its within you: the answer you seek, the direction you want, and the power to be who ever you want to be. Yours dreams are not yours by mere whim. They've been meticulously matched to the gifts you're now developing. Designed to lure you within, where your true powers lie, and then out into the world, beyond imagined limitations and fears. Trust yourself. Listen to your heart. You have the right stuff, you know what to do, and it can all be yours.

Taking The Leap

2009-08-13T06:29:00.000-07:00

When you were growing up , you were always told to stay away from the edge, you'll get hurt or you may fall. Time shows us that living on the edge is exactly where you want to be, there are know safe places where you can stand and say I'm safe from harm now. We lose track of what it is we're supposed to be doing in life because we think we're safe, going about your life being comfortable, saying to yourself I can relax now, but nothing in this world worth having, has not been attained without pain and risk of living on the edge. You must fear nothing and risk everything, make a plan to jump off of the edge, and you'll see by some invisable force you'll be caught by wings of grace, feeling that you can't fall, but you can't fall, what are you going to fall from, you just jumped off of the edge.

Do you know what its like, to stand on the heavenly diving board of time, looking down at the 10,000 lifetimes you're about to begin? Seeing everything for the first time through prisms of color and light? Feeling totally overcome with such a surge of joy for ALL that lies ahead, that it takes all of your angels just to keep you from leaping before it's your turn? Knowing that no matter what happens you will emerge wiser, richer, and deeply in love with every form of consciousness that will soon touch and expand your own? Oh yeah . . . Nice cannonball.

Let the Judges, Judge

2009-08-12T06:38:00.000-07:00

One of the biggest mistekes you can make in your life, is to judge yourself and someone else. You grow up in an environment where there is constant comparing and judgement, you see it on TV and hear it on the radio constantly, you pick up all of these little things and take them with you through life. First it begins with the watching others compare and judge each other, they'll try and make each other over, then you transfer that thinking to yourself, where now you're not as good, pretty, or handsome enough. You're always trying to improve something about yourself, you've successfully turned in on yourself, not knowing that the world you're looking at is coming from the inside, because we never see with our eyes, always with our perception of ourselves.

Always look within to find whats beautiful about you on the inside, I heard it said before beauty fades, and you're left with the beautiful you on the inside anyway. Just be what you want inside first and the outside will take care of it self. Don't forget, doubt yourself and you doubt everything you see. Judge yourself and you see judges everywhere you go. But if you listen to the beautiful sound of your own voice, you can rise above doubt and judgement. And then you can see forever.

Go To Your Happy Place

2009-08-10T03:46:00.000-07:00

There are going to be times when we feel hurt and are in pain, this usually come from being frustrated with something or someone not showing up for us in our lives. You set up in your mind that you want or need a certain thing by a certain date, when that thing doesn't show up, we're in pain or you beleive a person should act a certain way, when they don't, there goes that pain again. You can always control the outcome of any situation by not attaching yourself to the outcome, your job is to believe that the situation is going work in your favor, not at the time you want it to, but when it is supposed to. There is a higher source inside you that knows better than you what to do and when to do in any situation, it's there to work with you, if only you would believe and let it guide you. This higher power only knows how to make maricles, but it all starts with your belief, letting go, and taking action, then you will begin to see your signs. How do you know when you're on the right road when you're traveling? You see the signs.

So from this moment on, act as if you know everything is going to work out in your favor, because it is, you made it so. Remember, all the resources you wil ever want or need are at your fingertips. All you have to do is identify what you want to do with it and then practice the feeling-place of what it will be like when that happens.

Belief Makes It So

2009-08-09T06:22:00.000-07:00

You need more time to think about what it is you want out of life, what is your demand, and how can you comand what you want. It is written that you must give in charity, to alot of us thats hard to do, when your're moving so much. If you can give 10 minutes of concentrated thought to your day, it will change your life completely. There is nothing in this world that is more important than your well being, because when you're well, everybody and everything is made well by your presence, yes your thoughts can lift a whole auditorium to its feet. When we focus on ourselves to make ourselves better, the external has to give away to the internal (your positve thoughts about YOU). So get busy polishing up your act, because the world is waiting to see you shine, thats what you're here for, all of us were given talents. What are you going to do with yours.

It is easy. Just once a day, imagine the life you dream of. Believe that it can be yours in this world of magic and miracles. Choose to live as if you know of its inevitable manifestation. Don't comprimise. Don't worry. Don't look for results. And as surely as spirit crafts one moment after another, so too will it fuse together the life you now lead with the life of your dreans as if they were two pieces of a jigsaw puzzle, destined to become one. this alone determines what's "meant to be".

Expaect to Win

2009-08-08T04:07:00.000-07:00

You are now in a battle with a very formidable opponent, this oponent knows your plays, moves, tendencies, they just know you. They call a play everytime you call a play, they even call plays before you, they know whats at stake. Whenever you decide to reach a goal in your life, your going to have to face yourself, your opponent, which is you. They will try everything they have to stop you, because they are losers and they're satisfied with your being a loser too. That oponent, which is you, likes to see you in pain, likes to make you fearful, and most of all, loves every bit of your failure. You always get caught in self pitty when you fail, not knowing that failure is part of your success, but whenever you start out after a goal, you must expect to win at all cost. Your oponent, which is you, will try with all the power you give them to stop you, but when you can endure until the end through the pain and hard work, you're almost there.

You must know what your goal is, every detail, and never stop visioning it until you reach the goal and can touch what you've been visioning. Thats when you'll know that all the pain from your failure was worth every bit. Remember, Whats the best thing you can do in any situtation? The right thing. Whats the second best thing? The wrong thing. The worst thing you can do in any situation, is nothing at all. A competitor will find a way to win. Competitors take bad breaks and use them to drive themselves just that much harder. Quitters take bad breaks and use them as reasons to give up.

Knowing is Half the Battle

2009-08-07T06:19:00.000-07:00

You go through this life thinking you know what life is all about, when you don't know even alittle of what you are supposed to know. God said: (i'm paraphrasing), what you know you can put on a pin head. The knowledge of what you can and cannot do are so limited, you believe when a person that's close to us (family member, close friend) says something about our abilities it's true, but how can it be, if they don't even know themselves. The ancient text reads like this: Know Thy Self.

When you began the journey of studing yourselves, thats when a whole new world opens up, your world, because you are the co-creator of your world. I don't recommend asking for what you can have, or even for what you can give, nearly as much as I recommend asking for what else you can know. Because there is always more you can know, and knowing it will radically increase all you can have and give.

Don't Make Nothing You Can't Eat

2009-08-06T04:55:00.000-07:00

Are you so sure its not the dancer who creates the music to? Or the painter who manifests the mountains he captures? Or the tycoon who builds the empire before there's a dime? Whatever you want, let it exist first in your mind, imagine every nuance and consideraration, let the walls have substance, the hall have depth, and the money have weight in the palm of your hands, and then all that's necessary to bring it to pass will be drawn to you.

There will be times when you want a thing to manifest in your life, you get fustrated and tired, because the thing you said you wanted didn't come. You begin to blame God for not listening to your prayers, because you prayed everyday. Here is the truth about prayer, if you asked your mother or father on Sunday for money and they replied, I'll give it to you Friday, you wouldn't keep asking them everyday, you would think about the money, see it in your hands, patiently wait, and know that on Friday there will be money for you. That is the way God (universe, spirit, etc.) works, once you ask, think and see yourself with what you ask for, then wait with an expectation thats its going to show up in your life. Your job is to keep your eyes on the prize, the How is not on you, as Peter Pan would say: Only Believe.

Be Still and Listen

2009-08-05T05:43:00.000-07:00

You go throughout your day with constant chatter going on in your head, your thoughts are all scattered, from one subject to the next. You give yourself so much to do when it's not necessary, the things we think about don't have anything to do with right now, because if they did you would know that everything you need, you have at this moment, so there wouldn't be thoughts about yesterday or tomorrow (you don't have either one). When I was young boy my granmother would stop you whenever you tried to interupt her conversation and say; I knew alittle lasie, she was so polite, whenever she seen people talking, she her mouth shut tight. There is a constant communication going on between you and your higher self.

When you listen to your inner wisdom, you become evoled. When you trust yourself, you become a leader. When you believe all things are possible, you become a visionary. When you are willing to fullfill your purpose on Earth, you are enlightened. When you leave the planet better than you found it, you are a self-actulized being. Love yourself, trust your choices, and know that everything is possible!

Judgemant Day

2009-08-04T03:58:00.000-07:00

When you feel that there's a judgement day waiting for you somewhere after we die, you must remember that you are dying to yourself every moment you're here on this earth. When you do things, you see what you do, there is a spirit within you that knows whats right for you and whats wrong for you, no one can tell you that. You must always study yourself, because some will come into your life telling you about you, but they're not qualified to say anything in regards to your life, when they're speaking, they're telling you about themselves.

If you believe that something is good, and you do it, it benefits you. If you beleive that something is bad, and you do it, it is a very detrimental experience. There is nothing that you can do that is worse for yurself than to do something that you beleive is inappropiate, so get clear and happy about whichever choice you make, because it is your contradiction that causes the majority of the condradiction in your vibration.

It Gets Know Better than Now

2009-08-03T06:33:00.000-07:00

We'll go through most of this life with the thinking of yesterday and the worry of tomorrow. We waste allot of time trying to figure things out that have already been figured out, if you'll just let it be (trouble don't last always). I have a uncle whose is in his eighties and he told me one day that there was never a time to worry, I said never, he said never. Uncle Jack said in life you are going to have situations not problems, that come, but when you've done all you can do in that situation, what are you worried about, thats all you can do. We must learn to trust ourselves, that we will do the right thing, and the way we can do that is study ourselves, combine that knowledge with our experiences and we'll be eqipped for what ever comes. Having a faith and belief thats unshakable.

So the next time you make a wish, wish for what is, because really and truly, things don't get much better than this. There is a purpose, a plan, and a reason for all things. What doesn't make sense, will make sense. We are exactly where we should be; our rewards are what they should be; and the best is yet to come. Time has served us well. Love is in the air. And we're looking mighty good in the light that now surrounds us.

Feeling Loved

2009-07-31T05:14:00.000-07:00

Did you know, Family, that whenever you feel love, you literally begin to glow? You probably did. But did you know that the glowing is actually made up of zillions of minute sparkles? And that these sparkles receive as much energy as they create? And that because of this energy exchange you completely stop aging and look younger? Adundance is immediately drawn to you? Healing powers fill you? Muscles are strengthened, pounds are shed, and your vision improves? Lingering questions are answered? New friends are summoned? Old friends are poked? Problems are solved? and maple syrup tastes more maple-y?

Think back to a happy time in your life. A really, reall happy time. If you can, try to remember the happiest you've ever felt. Think of the laughter, the peace, the confidence, the ease of it all. Emotionally, relive a few of those moments. Don't think of the details (people, places, or circumstances); just think of the way you felt.

No Pain, No Gain

2009-07-30T05:43:00.000-07:00

Whenever we hear the phrase no pain no gain we think lifting weights or trying to lose weight, putting something on or taking something off. Your life works the same way, your adding, subtracting, even multiplying and dividing. As we go through this life there are going to be times when we'll meet someone that will hurt us, causing us pain, but if we can overcome that pain and move on with your life, that situation becomes a great reference card and stepping stone for future incounters with people. In those times we thought we knew what to expect from people, but we'll never know, so expect the unexpected, because you'll learn what you want by what do don't want.

You can rest assured, that those who have hurt you had absolutely no idea of what they were doing and what was really going on. It never accured to them that you'd become even more magnificent. That they'd be invoking your sympathy, adding to your compassion, and increasing your "sparkles". And it will still be eons before they can grasp that you actually welcomed them into your life and played their little games for some of these very reasons. Remember we are always adding, subtracting, multiplying and dividing our good and bad habits.

Decisions, Decisions

2009-07-29T07:21:00.000-07:00

We all travel through this life jorney wondering if we're making the right decisions, weather its family, job, money, home or relationship. I've been there several times and still go through those moments of indecision at times, (and I know its because of past programing of can't), because you want to trust everyone you may meet in this life. But if we sit back and watch the people that come in our lives, you'll see that you are only attracting to yourself, yourself. When your pointer of attraction is on negative, people come to assist you in that, and when your pointer is on positive, people come to assist you in that. Always check your past inventory of thoughts, because thats what your looking at right now, but you can change your thoughts now, and expect your nows to be the way they should be (Successful); wherein you make decisions that you'll fill confortable about making.

One of the qualities of a leader I've learned is that leaders make quick decisions and are very slow to change them, I guess the only and first decision most of us have to make is; are we going make the decision to take the leadership of our own lives or are we going to follow someone taking the lead of our lives. The decision is yours to make right now. I was taught by my grandmother that the decisions we make are very easy to make, it's can you deal with the consequences of that decision you made, and if you can, then make the decision.

5 Stages of Death: Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Despression and Acceptance

2009-07-27T06:27:00.000-07:00

There are times in all of our lives when we find a ugly part of ourselves that we don't like and don't want to deal with. This part of you is alive and well within you, but it has to die for you to live, because now it is affecting the way you live your life, with yourself and with others outside of yourself. When that ugly side is pointed out within you or by someone else, we'll say things like: (I know I don't act like that or they can't be talking about me). Denial. As you began to rationalize with yourself you began to get very fustrated with yourself or that person who said those words to you, because to you know they don't know you to be saying that. Anger. Now that you know this part really exist you began to have talks with yourself trying to make deals with yourself: (God if you do this for me I'll do that for you). Bargaining.

You now are beginning to blame yourself as to how this even happen to you and where did it come from, it's wearing you down mentally, spiritually and physically. Your self talk becomes very destructive to your self (not to the point of where you need hospitalization or medication). Depression. You've now gotten to the point where you can recognize this behavior and what triggers its ugly head to come out, making you look unatractive to yourself and to others, your're ready now to make a change for the better. Acceptance. We all have to go through these 5 stages of death, some take years, some months, some days, some stop at stage 2 and become a very bitter person, but we all must remember that for something to live, something has to die.

Every Knock is a Boost

2009-07-24T06:58:00.000-07:00

I frequently listen to conversations from people who'll sayI want to be, or I want to accomplish something. When they get to me there hopes and dreams are dashed, because someone weather its family or friends, have told them they can't do that or how you going do that. I tell them you're listening to people who haven't accomplished what you're trying to accomplish, so they are going to be negative, they can't see what you're looking at.

And when you see it, its as real as real can get. So remember this story: There was a donkey in a hole one day, and everytime a person walked by they picked up a rock and threw it in the hole at the donkey, until one day the donkey walked out of the hole on all the rocks the people had throne at him. Every knock is a Boost.

What If

2009-07-23T07:48:00.000-07:00

I was siitng at this computer wondering What If. What if I had the car of my dreams, the house I want, the clothes I want, the bank account. Then it dawned on me that I do have those things, right here inside of me, and they are as real as real can get. Everything on the outside of me is an illusion, but here in the kingdom I have many mansions. Don't ever stop believing inside of yourself, because thats where the fun begans.

How you THINK, you FEEL.

2009-06-15T08:02:00.002-07:00

During the course of a day we have plenty of thoughts that run through our minds all the time, but the thoughts you're having are in fact creating feelings inside of you. You may be thinking of any person (spouse or close friend), place (home or office) or thing (your car or wardrobe), all of them create a feeling within you, and the feelings from those thoughts are going show up in your life in direct proportion to the way FEEL, change your thoughts and everything changes.

We want to say to you that your thoughts change the behavior of everyone and everything who has anything to do with you. For your thoughts absolutely equal your point of attraction, and the better you feel, the more that everything and everyone around you improves. In the moment that you find an improved feeling, conditions and circumstances change to match your feeling.